Comments on: Why I’m a horrible mom, part 387

By: Zoeyjane

Zoeyjane — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 13:30:49 +0000

I was being facetious about the horrible mom part, Lou. But I know what you're saying, hun.

By: Zoeyjane

Zoeyjane — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:50:26 +0000

I think so, too. Until then, I’m perverting Christmas as a means of self-medication.

By: Tara R.

Tara R. — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 20:08:26 +0000

I wish I had some pearls of wisdom to share with you, but I have nothing to compare to your loss and I don’t want to say something stupid or insensitive.

I do believe though, that you will find that happiness and balance some day very soon.

By: Zoeyjane

Zoeyjane — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:25:18 +0000

Thanks, fellow non-hugger.

By: Zoeyjane

Zoeyjane — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:24:55 +0000

I do kind of believe that. I think that things that are supposed to happen, do, even if we do have a hand at shaping them, too.

By: Laskigal

Laskigal — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 07:03:37 +0000

I’ve been sitting her typing away and then erasing for the last several minutes.

I don’t have words. That’s a rarity for me.

I do have *hugs* and I don’t hug. But, for you, I’m gonna.

By: OHmommy

OHmommy — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:28:14 +0000

Oh hon, I remember that post and photo and don;t even have to go back to check it out. Hugs.

I had a conversation today with a girlfriend that just had a baby and her other child just turned 6. She spent every day with her eldest and now that he’s in school she has a new baby to care for. She’s. In. Heaven with happiness loving it sooooooo much. I am a little envious. My other two were so close together I pretty much was in a haze never enjoying them. I feel so guilty.

I don’t know what my point is but to say… I guess there’s a “plan” for everyone. Do you believe that, or no?

By: Zoeyjane

Zoeyjane — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:45:24 +0000

I was being facetious about the horrible mom part, Lou. But I know what you’re saying, hun.

By: Zoeyjane

Zoeyjane — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:44:40 +0000

Yup, that’s how I’m trying to use it, for sure.

By: lceel

lceel — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:57:54 +0000

It never goes away. I know. It’s why I know what your birthday is. It’s why I feel such a special attachment to you. No. It never goes away. But it doesn’t stop you, either.

It’s a reason to have a shot and a beer. It’s a reason to go sit somewhere, by yourself, and have a good cry. It’s a reason to love someone – or at least, a place to start.

You are not a horrible Mom. I couldn’t love you if you were.