Comments on: On Boundaries

By: SECRET AGENT MAMA

SECRET AGENT MAMA — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 13:24:12 +0000

That totally sucks, ZJ!

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By: Marge

Marge — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 17:59:41 +0000

You haunt most of the blogs I do. I see your comments and usually totally agree with them or they make me laugh. So why, why haven’t I come here to read before? As I read up on recent posts I’m nodding and think ‘I feel like i know her.’

I love your boldness. Say it like it is and screw ‘em if they’re offended. Hard as I’ve tried to not worry about what others will think – I still do it. Your raw honesty is beautiful. Keep writing, I’ll keep reading

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By: Red Lotus Mama

Red Lotus Mama — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 07:19:53 +0000

Hummm … organized religion … a real sore spot for me. My cousin has found faith in the Presbyterian church her husband goes to. She has a tendency to preach to me which actually turns me off organized religion even more. My girlfriend called me “lost” one day. Am I “lost”? What does “lost” mean? I have faith in what works for ME. I believe faith is different for each individual. We are not identical, so why should our faith be identical? Blah … blah … blah!

ZJ, you deserve friends that are true to you. Not ones that use you as leverage to the next best blog. I hate blogrolls. Of course it is exciting to see my name on your roll or Miss’ roll, but I really struggled creating mine. It is marks your place in the blogging world. Validates your ability to make an impression. But, I think a person needs to realize why do they blog … for personal venting, for creativity, to make an impression, to make friends, all of the above?

This blogger you wrote about doesn’t deserve your words or the real estate on your blog. Continue being you. That is why I am your friend.

By: raino

raino — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 02:29:25 +0000

hiya. won’t comment on religion but will say that i am sorry that someone has treated you this way. very sorry.

By: angel

angel — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 06:44:14 +0000

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By: sweetsalty kate

sweetsalty kate — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 00:58:49 +0000

How very calculating and bizarre.. and all because of teh god? See, that's just the kind of religion that gives me post-exposure gut rot. I'm so sorry your faith in friendship had to be sullied like that, and I hope the stink clears out quick. Visit sweetsalty kate to read...microeconomics

By: Always Waiting » Blog Archive » On Religion - Or My Lack-thereof

Always Waiting » Blog Archive » On Religion - Or My Lack-thereof — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 23:57:13 +0000

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By: lceel

lceel — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 13:10:16 +0000

Been there. Done that. All that they did for me was set an example that I try not to follow. They actually wound up teaching me how to be a better friend. It's all part of a process, ZoeyJane. That person may suck - but YOU will be a better person because of it. Visit lceel to read...The day after the night before

By: Zoeyjane

Zoeyjane — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 06:01:17 +0000

Converse: Seems to me that is the definition of godliness. Which is why I can’t do the one god thing – i think there’s godliness all around, not just a creator, etc.

By: Nicki

Nicki — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 03:43:59 +0000

Sounds like a crappy situation. As for what kind of Christian would act like that, I’m not a Christian but I lived in Wheaton (a hugely evangelistic town) and therefore have been schooled. To me there are Christians who really do walk the walk and talk the talk of their religion, the basis of which is supposed to be trying to act as Jesus would act and love all of mankind… and then there are those Christians who will always be Holier Than Thou. Plus some who are just in it for the attention. Uh, good luck with that…