Comments on: Reverse Course

By: Miss

Miss — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 15:58:42 +0000

Leave it up to some self rightous ANON ASSHOLE to tell you what you need to do. I hope you got it all down ZJ, thats some quality bullshit you just got fed. In fact, delete all the comments before that one and tape that shit on your fridge. This guy should run for president. Miss's last blog post..The Evolution of Love

By: Ashley

Ashley — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 15:48:38 +0000

@ the asshole (male).

Are you fucking serious? Not only was your comment beyond not-helpful, but it was plain mean AND cowardice. If you are going to post such a jack-ass comment, at least grow a pair and post who you are.

And, for the record *I* stay at home with my child,too. Wanna come on over to my blog and bash me too? Oh, and guess what…I’m gonna homeschool her! And, I hope to raise her better than YOU were obviously raised…to RESPECT others. I have nothing against anyone that works, but it OBVIOUSLY didn’t help you become a contributing member of society, now did it? You contribute to society by tearing other people down and spewing your self righteousness and hate? Who the fuck are YOU to tell her anything about HER life?

Why don’t you put your big boy panties on and just get over yourself? For real, jackass.

Ashley’s last blog post..15 Months Old

By: Maria

Maria — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 15:13:15 +0000

And goddamn these anonymous bastards! GROW SOME BALLS!!!!! Maria's last blog post..My Unwonted Crushes

By: Maria

Maria — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 15:11:46 +0000

@Male – STFU. You’re a fucking twat. A cunt. A pussy. A piece of whale shit covered in plankton vomit that just won’t fucking stay under the water, one that is probably very upset that it has to pay 60% of it’s measly little shit paycheck in shit money to his ex piece of whale shit covered in plankton vomit.

What? You’re not any of those things? Really?
Oh, I’m sorry – I forgot that I can’t really judge someone I don’t fucking know on the internet just because I’ve read a few words from them, so it’s not my place to tell you that you’re a fucktard. Keep your judgmental crap to yourself. Sweep around your own front door because I’m sure you have a crap load of issues yourself.

If you’ve really raised that many children you should know that every kid, and every parent, as well as every situation is different. Just because you succeeded [or think you have, one or all of your kids could very easily turn into a crackhead whore at any age buddy] in raising children doesn’t mean your methods are solid goal.

ZJ will figure out what is best for she and Isobel.
I believe small children fare better from at home parents.
You don’t – so what. Don’t go disrespecting someone you don’t know for making different choices.

Maria’s last blog post..My Unwonted Crushes

By: male

male — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 07:12:53 +0000

Listen, kids can handle more than you think. Get a job for your own self respect. If you think staying home with your child is going to guarantee there future success you are sadly mistaken. Any woman who says my child needs me to be home with them and not in day care is delusional and to prove my point, how well have you been doing with your child when you can’t even leave them alone because you are afraid of them assaulting another child? (�She�ll punch you in the face if you take something from her. She�ll scream and spit at you for simply giving her a choice between two things�) Good Work mom sounds like a chip off the old block! Get over yourself. maybe if you worked and earned some self respect your child will learn more from those few hours you spend together than all those hours you spend catering to the childs anti social behavior. Oh and before you start bashing, I have raised 4 kids from changing diapers to prom dresses. Been there done that. You need to build yourself up to where you are “Mentally able� to be a productive member of society. That is what is going to help your child the most

By: Kim

Kim — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 16:31:29 +0000

I am that mom that works to lose money every month. But we have to do it because healthcare is more expensive than daycare .. and I carry the benefits because my husband consults.. it sucks.. It really sounds like you need to be there for your daughter.. you understand her better than anyone.. okay, now that i have said that, I would like to be next in line to kid Jdawg in the nuts for his stupidity. Kim's last blog post..Adventures In Bra Hunting

By: Mrs. Kitty

Mrs. Kitty — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 22:44:40 +0000

I think everybody else beat me to the punch. Although I AM good puncher so if you need some of that on JDawg, I'll be there. And for whatever happens, I hope that your daughter prevails and flourishes. I know its got to be hard on both you and her, so I wish for the same for you. I can't believe everything you have to deal with. And yet, your doing it with grace and maturity. It may not seem like it, but you are. Admirable. Because your a mom and chooses to be a mom. JDawg chooses to do whatever the F he wants too. Ugh. Disgusting. Mrs. Kitty's last blog post..Our Harbor of Hope

By: .Ophelia.

.Ophelia. — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 05:34:13 +0000

you know what, that is the typical male thing to say! They realllllllly have no idea unless they are the primary caregivers how effing hard it is to raise and nurture their child.

So much to say but I will refrain.
I really hope the best for you and little Isobel.

By: LaskiGal

LaskiGal — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 02:51:27 +0000

I’m still stuck on the comment about YOU having to work on her hitting . . . hmmmm . . .

I have plenty to say, but it all falls short of useful. So, instead, I’m gonna send out good vibes that . . .
-things work out with the ex-mister
-your daughter’s spirit is appreciated and nurtured regardless of her environment
-that you find the best job EVAH (and maybe take a class or two–isn’t that something you’ve discussed? And, finish those novels!)
-and that you find PEACE for you and your baby girl

LaskiGal’s last blog post..Ice Cream Social

By: Kori

Kori — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 22:45:00 +0000

I think some of thse comments, though all are well-intended, are not really very realistic; unfortunatley, spousal support being awarded is less and less common, especially if the parent is capable of working. Also, no, it isn’t true that most mothers get automatic custody or physical custody, not anymore, not unless the other parent is clearly incapable of being an active parent. As it is obvious that both parents live in the same town, there may be some type of co-parenting arrangement that could be reached, where one of you has her three nights out of the week, the otehr four, etc…and depending on where you live, most courts will require you both to take a parenting class and present a formal parenting plan. Just be prepared because there are no givens. And if you do have to go to work, you will get through it; I have four, and I have gotten through it. and I had one that sounds eerily similar to your sweetheart; it is a lot of work and it is really important to find quality childcare where you are a part of a team, and it really sucks. But a note of comfort: my devil-child is now 9, and he is actually mostly tolerable to be around.