i got mentioned on ashley’s blog and by gigi. it made me feel special.
raymi wrote some awesome advice which would have applied to the doctor years ago. like YEARS before me. and i think it’s funny but sad that we girls tend to find a string-along. and exploit him until he’s so mind-fucked that he thinks every girl will always treat him like that.
msn messenger is being a bastard today and kept signing me out. then finally, i managed to stay signed in and all of my contacts got signed out. now one by one and two by two, they’re all getting signed back in. SEE i wasn’t just rude and signed out in the middle of our conversation!
i’m separating change from me and the doctor’s change jars and we are loaded. for once, i’m not just rolling it because we need the moolah, it’s cuz they’re full. and this has given me the great idea, though not original by any means, to hoard our future change and deposit it to the baby’s bank account. once one is set up and that can only be done once we know if we’re having a Hayden or a Zoe.
i’m going to go out on a limb and say this: i don’t want us to have a college fund for the baby. not out of selfishness – but because i personally think and have lived that if you really want to go to school, you’ll find a way, even viz loans or stripping. not that i want my kiddo to strip. but i don’t wanna hand school to him/her, if she/he may not even REALLYREALLY wanna go. i think things that you had to work your ass off for are so much more worth it. this extends to buying the rugrat a car, designer clothing and electronics. this doesn’t apply to paying for birth control.
call me naive, but i think the money would be put to much better use providing a lead up to college. clubs, music lessons, gymnastics, whatever. that way, they’ll end up with a well-rounded perspective and know what they really want. hopefully. at least they may know what they don’t want.
which is more than the doctor or i could really ever claim while growing up.
